It just seems to me that any interactions between 2 people of the opposite gender always involves some form of game or nonsense, even if its between just friends. For example, what's with gender roles? If a girl likes a guy, why does she have to jump through the hoops to get him to ask her out. Or on another note, if a girl doesn't like a guy, why does she just start ignoring him instead of being honest? On top of that, why is there so much communication through friends?
I'm just asking because it seems every girl I've had romantic interest in has played on of these games...point being, I'm an adult...I can handle rejection, honesty, and the absense of gender roles. What do you think?
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Yeah, a lot of it... the basis is that they simply don't know what's appropriate. Other than that it's to do with shyness!
As for why it goes through friends, I guess it's because that's the way society displays it. TV shows, magazines, movies - girls gossiping about guys and relationships.
If they're just starting out with dating they're probably going to go to their only source - friends and family.0
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