me and this girl had a class together last semester and she gave me the signals that she was interested and that she wanted me to approach her but I was in a bad time in my life (I was unemployed and still have no car) and I was unable to, for the lack of better wording,afford it or able to pick her up, but in the brief minutes that we had spoken I felt we had great connection and we even exchanged info at the end of the semester...to be completely honest and blunt I feel, well...pu$$y asking her over the internet but she lives 25-30min away and I know I might not ever see her again and if I do it won't be till next semester and at that point it might be too late and she may be taken if I don't make this leap
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What I would do is ask her to meet you before you ask her out. If she likes you, she'll make the 25, 30 minute trip to come see you. Maybe something that implies a date. If she figures out it's like a date, then she'll be able to make a choice without you asking her straight out. If she says it's too far away, then she doesn't like you enough to date you (unless she's honestly busy/doesn't have reliable transportation).
I'd also consider what it would mean to date her when she lives that distance away. The strain it might put on her to drive an hour round trip to see you, and how you would manage a relationship that's like a long distance relationship, since you wouldn't get much face time.
But do go for it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.0