this includes gold diggers and people you don't just click and cheaters
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good question! well first thing is to get to know them of course, and I've had pretty awful ex-best friends who were girls so I can give you some pointers on who to avoid:
-the girl that talks too much about herself and mentions every detail about her like how silky beautiful her hair is a perfect shade of auburn -cocky
-the girl that gossips a lot and trash talks especially other girls
-the girl that always mentions other guys and the whole omg I think he likes me, omg he sent me this creepy text message, omg I think he's in love with me, omg he asked me out, omg he likes every Facebook pic I put up, he's obsessed with me, anything along those lines, my ex frenemy was like that and she was way too obsessed over herself and getting mens attention because that's how insecure she was, she ended up playing lots of guys and stealing my man too and cheated on 2 of her bf's she was the worse bitch I ever met.
-the girl that always talks about money, and materialistic things, what car she wants, and shows off and discusses ph D plans and going to harvard, another ex friend always talked about her boyfriends earnings, and going to a top ivy league college, and how much money he has saved up, and how well off his family is, and it always made me wanna puke like get over yourself, also when we hung out its like she always wanted to go to the top scale restaurants and didn't wanna go to places I wanted to go, like she's too cool for things her friends wanna do.
-the girl that enjoys watching jersey shore and mtv in general, of all the girls I've known who watch that are usually the frenemies and jerks.
-loud mouth in the group, talks on and on trying to be the leader in the group, stealing attention away from others, not giving others a chance to speak
-too many guy friends, too many guy numbers on her phone
-speaking of phone, always on her phone, living her fake ass cyber life like she's cool sh*t and popular, most her of her friendships probably aren't genuine
-girls that try too hard to act like one of the guys and talk about sex openly, again from my experience theyre usually the cocky self obsessed player types.
now as for the good women and what to look out for:
-she may be shy and good girl type, may be polite and studious, goes to the library or just works hard in life, earns things on her own, is independent, has a job, may be volunteers on her free time
-she likes babies and children, pets animals, most likely wants kids and wants a loving husband and family.
-isnt materialistic, doesn't buy brand clothes or bags just sticks to her own style and rocks it being simple, or she will save her money and buy one special thing like a purse and will make good use out of it
-always listens to you and observes, respects others, gives others a chance to shine and speak
-she remembers things you say or do
-she is always there for her friends and family, is a good support to those she loves
-is moral, doesn't lie or cheat and has self respect
hope this helps!