Like when it comes on deciding things how come the girl does most of the talking & the guy doesn't say much. Especially when it comes to planning a wedding or a get together.
I notice females tend to have more friends or people they know than males do. When it comes to meeting people I notice the female does all the talking while the male just sit there quietly.
Females tend to be more talkative than males not saying all females, but in most cases it is like that.
Why is it like that?
What if a guy gets with a girl who isn't as outspoken & the male has to do all the talking? Would that be a big turn off for a guy?
Because I notice guys seem to love it when girls do the deciding factor.
Why can't both male & female be outspoken instead of just one person doing all the talking?
I can't be in a relationship where I have to do all the talking, but it seems like males are so quiet & don't really talk much nowadays.
What is up with that? Is it just in the males nature to be that way?
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We men are supposed to be leaders but the male sex has de-evolved in my opinon over the years. One type of evidence is what you speak of, the indicisiveness of men and their inability/unwillingness to plan and speak up. Guys have gotten to the point where they're okay taking the back seat and letting the girl lead and it's sad. Guys will become submissive and will refrain from stating their opinion about something so as to not anger the girl and in general don't want to stand up for what they believe in, rather it's easier for them to coast and hang low. There are real men out there, but a real man is becoming more and more rare as time goes on.3