6 months of hooking up dating or not?

[Allycat10]

is 6 months of hooking up considered dating if he didn't ask you out?

answer:

yes or

no

[MrOracle]

No.

"Just sex" doesn't become a relationship just because it's gone on a long time. Relationships require discussions of the relationships, and agreeing on terms and rules and limitations, and talking about wants and dreams and desires.

You don't have that; you're just having sex. And 98% of the time, if you have sex BEFORE you have a relationship, you'll NEVER get a relationship with that guy, because the fact that you had sex outside of a relationship means he won't consider you to be "relationship material." If you want a relationship, you MUST get it BEFORE you have sex. If you try to get one AFTER, you're almost always going to fail, and be hurt as a result.

[Allycat10]

MrOracle-not sex hooking up (making out, everything except sex) and what if I knew him for a long time and we did talk about all those things what then is it considered a relationship or not?

[MrOracle]

When you and he agree to be committed and exclusive with each other, and agree on any other important terms of your relationship. Then you are officially boyfriend/girlfriend. Just messing around doesn't do it.

[toulouse]

@98% of the time, if you have sex BEFORE you have a relationship, you'll NEVER get a relationship _________Right. That's why, 6 out of 10 long term relationships, start with Sex.

[Lakeburn]

Agreed with mroracle. Not a dating relationship for sure. That being said; there is only something wrong with that type of relationship if one person thinks it is something else...hook-up and enjoy it for what it is or go find what you want with someone else.

[Allycat10]

which is why I ended it... :/

[UberTroll]

No, it's just hooking up.