Guys know what to get themselves because they know exactly what they like, It's very easy. Gadgets, games, etc, we know how these things work and most of that stuff can be traded off for credit towards new stuff when we get sick and tired of it, If you don't like something he bought that was expensive it's just a waste. When it comes to women. How do we know if you'll like a necklace. That bracelet might be too ugly to her. I don't even know what size blouse she can wear! It's like asking a caveman to fly the space shuttle.
My advice? great big old hints. "Ooh I love this purse by (insert popular designer name)! I could reeeealy use a GPS too! I wonder if I should get the size FOUR or the size THREE... I'll get the THREE, it fits me MUCH better." Don't blame him for getting himself what he likes, you'd get stuff for yourself that you like right?
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Considering you are just a teenager, your view is disturbingly money grubbing. Such a sense of entitlement at a young age is not becoming. Unless you happened to mysteriously forget to mention all the expensive things you're buying him, you need to tone it down. Even if that's the case, since when is a happy relationship a game who can one-up each other on spending money on each other? Your priorities need to be examined.
he's your boyfriend not your husband. he's not entitled to buy you all that stuff.
its his money. you don't control his wallet.
unless you guys are married, he doesn't have to buy you expensive stuff. buy it yourself.
i don't mean to sound rude but come on now. think about it.
wouldnt you feel weird buying your boyfriend expensive things like an xbox or a ps3? it would be something else if you guys were married but you're not. I would never give my boyfriend expensive things like that either. I don't know why girls expect their boyfriend to share their money like if that was their husband.
Depends what you asked for really. I can't speak for every girl but I'd hate for a guy to buy me gifts for no reason. I mean its nice to be surprised with flowers etc but not something of any value. Must be due to being very independent, I don't like to owe people money or drinks or anything. Its his money, if he wanted to buy new clothes and an xbox with it then its his decision, he may be your boyfriend but that doesn't mean he has to buy you a random gift. Do you ever buy him random expensive gifts?
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My partner whom I have been with for a long time, buys himself all the new gagets and let them sit. I do all the house work and have ask for little gifts to show appreciation. He said he has his own ideas with what to get me no need for me to tell him...years later I am still waiting for his big plan. Meanwhile I get him little stuff such as jellybeans and whatnot because I know he likes them. Well...he is done with me and planning to move out. Use your own judgement...somethimes its not the gifts...
I wouldn't let him know that you feel this way, its his money, I don't see a problem here, I'm 26 and most of time when you get a gift from a guy its on an occasion. Your young and not married with kids, you have nothing to worry about except your self, why are you worried about what he does with his money? It really shouldn't hurt at all.
LOL and when's the last time you bought him something just because? You're sounding pretty spoiled right now.
do you randomly buy him expensive, stuff?
He can do whatever he wants with his money.
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