My boyfriend does buy me gifts once in a while but they are only for special occasions he never surprises me with things. Okay I know so far it sounds selfish but here's an example. Recently my boyfriend bought himself a brand new xbox, new clothes, and pretty much new everything! I gave him a piece of paper with something I would like (his idea for me to tell him so that he could buy me things again his idea I don't like it) and he called saying that he wouldn't be able to get me it since its too expensive. I felt really bad after that because he got me really cheap gifts for Christmas, for my birthday it was nice (a lil), and for Valentine's day he did go all out, but I hate the fact that he spent a lot of money on an xbox WITH games and didn't even bother to surprise me with a gift. It hurts it really does. I would love and appreciate some advice. Thank You
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he's your boyfriend not your husband. he's not entitled to buy you all that stuff.
its his money. you don't control his wallet.
unless you guys are married, he doesn't have to buy you expensive stuff. buy it yourself.
i don't mean to sound rude but come on now. think about it.
wouldnt you feel weird buying your boyfriend expensive things like an xbox or a ps3? it would be something else if you guys were married but you're not. I would never give my boyfriend expensive things like that either. I don't know why girls expect their boyfriend to share their money like if that was their husband.0