Started talking to this girl a couple of weeks ago and we would talk like all day long for three days straight. So we went out a couple of times, a movie and chilled at her house on another occasion. So as of now we don't talk that much anymore besides when we see each other face to face... and we haven't gone out for 2 weeks now. So I text her the other night and ask her if we are going to hang out or is it a bad time right now. She responds it's bad right now I'm going through much more than what you can see. I enjoy spending time with you but it's just hard right now. What does this mean?
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It means you need to be more of a friend to her right now. Ask her if she wants to talk about it. Let her know you're concerned and willing to help out in any way you can. I know this is cheesy but send her an e-card or something showing you care. It will definitely make a difference. Let her know she can take how much time she needs and when she's ready, you're there. Its probably a personal issue and if she feels like she can talk to you, she will but you need to show her that you're there for her no matter what.0