I was just wondering. I think I'm pretty in a pretty good place after my break-up in March but I wonder why a lot of guys act really cold and uncaring after even serious break-ups.
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Depends on the guy. Some guys might be so destroyed by a break up that it takes them years to get back into the game. Other guys just want meaningless sex and that's apparently easy to find. They might have a girl on their arm but that doesn't mean they're invested beyond her ability to get him off. Women being typically more emotional might put more emphasis into finding a real relationship or risk being labeled loose or slutty just for finding a new guy quickly. As least that's how it used to be, now that women are getting a bit more generally bold it's hard to level that double standard as much.1