he makes a minimum effort to improve our relationship, its always me who initiates.he does stuff that make me feel good about him and the relationship, but then he becomes distant again. with my other boyfriends the situation was reversed, they had to "fight" for my attention and trust. should I start acting distant too, and wait for him to be more into this or if he doesn't change break up, or should I talk about it and reveal my true feelings and make myself vulnerable and maybe seem needy?
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You're not being needy though. He's doing the bare minimum to keep you hooked so he has you for whenever he feels like it and he knows it's OK because so far, you've allowed it. Time to switch the game up and lay it all out there. Don't be afraid to tell him to get his sh*t together or this isn't going to work out.0