We've been on and off for over five years. He's never been a big phone person(neither am I) but I still think it's odd to not even text goodnight every night and he just don't give a damn. He'll take the initiative and text sweet messages every night for a month or two, but then he quits. He doesn't realize that maintaining a relationship is necessary to keep it going in the right direction...is he ever gonna be consistent or am wasting my time hoping he will change?
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It's a bit srange IMO, but that's because I'm a person who believes in communicating daily w/my mate. At this point, I really don't think his inconsistent communication will change. He is who he is. I think you have to either accept him as is or move on to someone who communicates in a manner that you wnt them to.1