Me and a girl started talking and ended up in the I love you situation and told me she loved me and that I didn't have to say it unless I meant it too. I told her I loved her too but weeks later after we have been together she made a big deal about how we weren't dating when I put that I was in a relationship on Facebook. She said she wasn't certain about how she felt. I am pro confused because I thought dating usually came before love and running off to texas.
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yeah. love can be an act, but also just a feeling. its very possible to have feelings for someone without having a plan, aim, intention, expectation, etc, towards being with them. I was ion love for 3 years, before I was ready to actually be 'with' him. were together now, but it took a lot of work getting comfortable with being together-for me.
i noticed, someone said no, because its a bad idea.
i don't think its a question, of good or bad idea. it can happen, that's all.
her being unsure of her feelings, is not someone who is in love, but doesn't want to date. she may just not be clear about herself.
i was definitely 100% in love, no question. I equally, did not want to date.
i don't think uve got much choice, but to talk to her... about what you guys should do.0