My guy and I had been talking, and literally an hour and a half before my dad died, my guy and I talked about possibly dating sooner or later. yes, my dad passed away suddenly from a heart attack. I'm 17. My life is flipped, and changed and so confusing. My guy, 16 soon to be 17, was by my side, and our relationship became your not-so-typical beginning high school relationship. He was by my side, spending time with me, giving me kisses, cheering me up. He had a difficult time seeing me like this. Already we saw each other cry for the first time, and experience the unimaginable. Things went faster, because of how I was. A month later, we talked about what we were. He was starting to get distant so I wanted to know. He said he didn't feel like he wanted a girl friend but in the future maybe. I understood at the time, and we both agreed I should deal with what I have and see where we both are at later in time. He didn't say much, he doesn't really ever. But his mom told mine that she doesn't think her son would be able to handle dating me, and how I am. she thinks he's afraid, he might screw up and make me feel worse if he didn't do justice. he also might feel like he has to be by my side a lotttt because of the situation I'm dealing with. when actually, I like space, and wouldn't want a clingy relationship in the first place.
guys, do you understand him? how would you handle this after telling me that you didn't want a girlfriend, just give space and text once in a while
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This is not about you or trouble. He just cannot handle that yet. I understand that. I would not have problem with that at all now. I am 27. But I would at 18. It is not your fault. This is hard for him. And much much harder for you. Much harder. But when he will deal with his feelings about this I think he can come beck to support you.0