Guys, do you let your girlfriends have guy friends? Why or why not?Can your girlfriend go out with her guy friends or are they just allowed to talk on the phone? How do I ask my guy if I can have guy friends? He's very insecure, do you think he will agree to this?
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I would expect the same rights and responsibilities that I would want with women friends. For instance:
* It's fine to have friends in a workplace (where's she's working). Or go out for food or a snack with them -- preferably not alone. Why not alone? Because it sends out the wrong signals when a couple of the opposite gender is alone... and I wouldn't do it either.
* She can go out with them (in a group), specially if they're going along with their families or partners (just to keep this a group thing, and avoid the wrong connotations).
* When it comes to phone and personal discussions, I have no problem. Of course, the context is the issue. If she's talking about work or something professional, it's fine by me. If it's a question of basic chit-chatting, then she would be better off doing it with girls or with me. The same rules apply for me. I talk to women in work situations and as equals, but not just as one-on-one friends. That's what partners are for... otherwise don't be in a relationship.0
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