There's this girl who I've been interested in. She's very good-looking. There was a time a while ago where I had her attention one-on-one since I was the only guy talking to her; now we're in a new class and there's some other guys chasing her. And those guys chasing her are all friends, so they're all talking to her at the same time, all huddled in a group and stuff. Since they've come into the picture, I've distanced myself.
I just don't feel like trying to fight for her attention. I used to sit next to her all the time, now one of the other guys does, and the rest of them sit around her now, too. In the meantime, I've sat away and talked to other girls and, to be honest, it has kept my stress-level down.
I keep telling myself that if she's interested she'll eventually come up to me and talk to me regardless of the other guys. And if she's not, well, I've got the other girls I've been talking to. But we used to text a lot, and now those guys are texting her, asking her to hang out, basically do the stuff I used to do and to protect myself from being lost in the shuffle, instead of joining the fray, I've removed myself.
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Bro. Wanna know the secret to getting her? I'll tell you what it is.
These guys huddled around her all have one thing in common. They are all trying to kiss her ass and would just about anything to get with her. Although she likes the attention, this is too common.
What you do is, text her, and tell her that you would like to talk to her alone at school one on one.
Then when you actually talk to her, be str8 up and direct.
Tell her that you have feelings for her and you want to go out with her. Tell her you don't want no games and no drama.
Now the key to this is:
If she shows interest in it, then take her out on an awsome date, and try to kiss her. Once you kiss her, things will get easier there.
If she starts going around the bush when you tell her, then you stand up and calmly leave. After that, be more distant from her. And go and get other girls at your school to show her you are not upset. At this time, she should be trying to get your attention. And that's when you slowly start to gain her attraction.0