been a while since I've asked a question on here and coincidentally I'm back here asking questions about the same guy from four years ago. Obviously I don't expect anyone to remember the situation so ill try cut a long story short,
This guy was my first love.
my first kiss, my first everything.
he used me and I let him
he broke my heart.
he lead me on knowing that I liked him and would sleep with him when ever he asked.
while this was going on he got a girlfriend and we stopped.
he would never show any affection to me at all, would call me names, refused to go anywhere with me.
we lost contact for 3 years, last year I contacted him after I broke up with someone and found out he had broken up with his girlfriend.
we have been talking for about 8 months again and he has done a complete 360.
he talks to me everyday
tells me I'm cute
takes me out to the movies, coffee, football games his cousins birthday.
he gave me a necklace.
when he went overseas he brought me back a top and a keying.
he holds my hand in public
kiss me on the head and cheek.
last night we slept together for the first time since and the chemistry was completely different, he cuddled me while we watched a movie, and then wanted to cuddle and kiss me after we had finished which has never happened...Four years ago he would of said no cuddling get dressed where done.
This is all I ever wanted but I'm so scared that he will change again, I understand we are both different people now, we've both grown up.
I just need to know what you guys think this all means..
my friends think that its going to get serious because he wouldn't be putting in all this effort...But I don't want to get my hopes up, and I'd like an outsiders point of view because friends always tell you what you want to hear..
cant wait to hear back from you all :)
today he proposed to her.
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If I were you I would be friendly but never fully submit to a relationship until you know for sure he has changed. I have seen guys in my past and a new a player who would go out with an ex or a girl they used and abused just to say they have a girlfriend. Then they will dump at the first chance they get when someone they really like comes their way. Always take care of yourself. Do not hold your breath but you can be civil. Wait it out and if he pushes tell him the truth. You do not want to restart a relationship that may not go anywhere, or will fail at the first chance he gets. The ball is now in your side of the court, you have the rightto be cautious and to expect better from him from what he put you through from the last relationship.0