Well back in April I told him how I felt, now he knows how I feel but I freaked and said to him that while we were talking I decided it was just a spur of the moment thing. When I told him I liked him he told me something like "i don't know how or where those feeling are for you" or something like that. moreover, he said that he finds me attractive and he's attracted to me, then started to list off things " I'm beautiful, amazing eyes, and I have a amazing singing voice", moreover we decided to act like adults and treat the situation. But he did say this when I mentioned similar features, he said "imagine what our kid would look like..." Which threw me off balance, after that semi-rejection.
We had a friendiversary (our one year) a few months ago. and oddly it FELT like a date, we had a great time, chatted. had dinner...almost too perfect.
Now I've come to terms with reality, and I know I'm either reading to much into it or there is something he's denying..
Moreover, he notices if my hair is a different color, style or if I've done anything new to it. he notices these little details and if I tell him a problem he gets very protective.
So today we had lunch and it was a good start to the week, it was almost romantic, I mentioned earlier to him that I was seeing someone and he asked me the who, what, when, where and how. It was like he was sizing up the other guy...also, he asked me if I wanted kids further down the road..Suffice to say it was a good 2 hours.
We took a stroll afterward and when he left he thanked me and hugged me...longer than usual. I feel the initial connection, and we have one, also chemistry. and when were with people he focus on me and solely me.
Now I need your input am I going all gaga or does it seem like there is something there...
Sorry for the length of the Question!?!
We talked and he saw my new hair color which he likes... :D and we both couldn't stop smiling... I am sending him a care package...when I get an address..
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I think there is definitely something there! You need to be totally honest with about how you feel. You never, he could be the right guy for you and the other guy just reinforces that. The fact that you are merely asking the "is there something there?" question says that you clearly care a lot for him, otherwise you wouldn't be asking. He does like u, otherwise he wouldn't have asked you those questions about the guy, would he? You know all of this already. You need to put all your fears aside and think of him solely as he does with u. The signs are all there, you just need to figure out what to do with them. You need to decide if he is worth the risk and exactly how you feel about him before either of you get hurt. But the signs are all there. I'm sure you can put 2 and 2 together lol. Good luck! ;) xx0