My boyfriend broke up with me because he wasn't sure if we would ever get married? I'm not planning on it for years but he is still in love with me , so my questions
is that something that a guy goes through when in a serious relationship? is it normal? will he come back to me?
- He most likely will want you backVote A
- He will move on to another girl soonVote B
- Was just an excuse he really doesn't love youVote C
- Just needs time because a serious relationship is a lot in only 5 monthsVote D
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It sounds like he just said that he loved you just to keep the relationship going. But it's hard to say. There's a good chance you scared him off because he doesn't feel as strong about you as you do about him. But honestly just from these small descriptions the answers you're gonna get from questions like these aren't going to be too reliable. Use your own judgment. The only reliable and sound advice I can give you is just to move on with your life (he left you after all) and focus on furthering your own life and being happy without needing him in order to be happy. Further/improve your career/studies if you have them, or just improve your personal life, but really, don't rely on this guy to keep happy. Obviously this must be heartbreaking for you if you really loved him that much. I know how you must feel. But well, if this guy comes back, great; if not, you need to move on. It'll be tough, but use other things to keep your mind off of him. Hang out with friends often, and further your career if you have one and stuff. Try not to think of him too much, because if you do, it will be painful and you won't get much from it. Wait until you're emotionally stable to start thinking about him and try and find your peace with the situation; for now, keep your mind off of him and keep happy without him. Don't worry about asking questions like this, because one, you won't know the answer until he does or does not come back, and two, it really doesn't matter anyway, because even if you do love him a lot, you shouldn't rely on anyone to keep happy.1