How come you always complain to the one guy who will listen to you and cares about you about guys that treat you like s#¡t? Like you ask where that guy is, the one who doesn't just want to have sex, and we're all just stuck in your friend zone and wishing we could be that guy you are dreaming about. I mean I just always start to really start to like a girl, and they always say it won't work out, we're too good of friends, I hate it. And the one girl who didn't do that to me, I screwed up with after a year, any advice? And I need serious answers.
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I'm not sure what you're experiences are, but in my experience as a female, there is no such thing as a 'nice guy.'
I'm just attracted to shyer, 'nerdier', more awkward guys naturally, and even they can sometimes turn into real d***s. The guy I'm seeing now falls into that category, and I have never felt more confused and played around in my life. He is not popular with females at all, and I'm quite popular with males, yet I can't get him to pay attention to me.
Anyway, to answer your question, a girl can't help who she likes, or is attracted to. Usually the guy who is always there, and drops everything for her is the one she overlooks because she doesn't have to make an effort in order to get his attention. Try and be a little less available when it comes to the girl, I know its hard, and you probably want to spend as much time with her as possible, but dating is a game, and despite the fact that many people say they hate minds games, we all play them whether its intentional or not.1