The other day a beautiful woman walks in the cafeteria in a tight dress and high heels with long hair. And my friend wanted to get to know her but he felt he wasn't good enough since he is a normal guy trying to talk to sexy woman in public and he says that woman have it easy and that she can have any man she wants in the entire room. And since he was a man she wasn't going to be interested in just one guy since she has a vajayjay and she looks too good. I wonder why he underestimates himself do woman have dating under their terms? A girl can be a loser and get men to go crazy for her but a man has to have money or status?
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We give others their status and power. If your friend approached a girl with the idea that he was trying to get her approval then he was GIVING her power and status.
If, instead, your friend felt like HE had the power and status, he would have approached her with a very different vibe and energy... and I promise you that she would have reacted very differently.
She might not have been interested still, but he wouldn't have walked away feeling any less of a man.
Hot or not there's no reason she should give him any more of her time or attention than she wants.
And cool or dorky, there's no reason he should chase a girl just because she's hot, or not.
If he's/your jaded because you feel women have more power you should try looking within your own self confidence, mindsets, or beliefs... instead of trying to pout while blaming others for having it "easy."
Life is about perspective... and it sounds like your perspective is weak and disempowering. I can tell because men with power don't complain about what other people have that he doesn't.
If you want power and status you need to OWN it within yourself, and you need to stop trying to take it from others.