Every time I talk to this chick, she misunderstands what is said, or communicates a different message which is misleading. Then comes back at me with "that's not how I meant it". Then starts critiquing my replies based on how I reply to her own defined words.
She calls me "boo" I interpret that as the defined meaning of the word, so I give her a nickname. She tells me not to call her that, and starts some drama over something so stupid and petty.
My reaction A) I remained calm, asked her what she meant by the word etc.
Her response was that "I'm clingy" for trying to clarify so I could understand what she meant. She did clarify but she didn't see my perspective, and continued to 'beat me down' so to speak, because I told her I'd talk to her later, because she was giving me one word replies and I felt no need to continue wasting my time trying to explain what wouldn't be heard.
So after that, I told her "lets just forget about it, we misunderstood each other" and all she said was "It's you who is taking it personal".
That is when I went off on her for her bullsh*t, then accusing me of being 'clingy'. She acted as if I shot her dog. After an hour of it, we parted ways.. an hour later we talked again,although we ignored and didn't mention the argument that didn't need to happen, I still find this issue coming up.
I asked her what she thought of religion, or perspective, her opinion, it wasn't a big deal, it had nothing to do with if it mattered to anyone in a negative context or more. She took the entire thing down a different road. I asked this, quote on quote:
"So what do you think about religion? P.S first text was a joke."
*she didn't get the joke which was: "I just made you open your phone for no reason...looks like I got you in check =}" I've sent this text to a few girls I know to mess with them, and they thought it was pretty funny.. this girl.. noooo.. just a "What?".
Anyways she to the point.. she says: "I'm christian if that's what you're asking." then I asked for her perspective on religion or if she looked into it at all etc.. she said " what do you mean? I don't have a problem with any other faiths."
I asked the question in a different context.. she said this:
"only in school. and I still don't see why it matters. I respect what they believe in. Just dont' believe in it"
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Wow she sounds really annoying, and she seems to have an attitude problem from what you have written.. If I were you I would've cracked it a loonngg time ago and she seems to have not changed her way of talking since you guys had that argument. Anyways, she sounds like a really hard girl to get along happily with.. Now I don't know if it's just her, or maybe in fact you're both misinterpreting and reading each others texts in different tones and the way it was meant to be passed on. It happens.. Soo I don't really know what I'm answering but yh.. :)