Several times he's said his favorite things about me are my sense of humor and intelligence. Which is totally great and all, don't get me wrong here, but he's been rather bi-polar on the physical comments (which are infrequent). He's poked fun at my weight before, and also said that it wasn't that important to him and I was fine. (I'm not that over, some to lose, but still have a figure, not round)
I'm not hung up on the lack of complements, that's totally fine with me, but sometimes I honestly can't tell if he finds me that attractive. Its weird. Any thoughts? Is it that important?
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I can honestly say, as a boyfriend who tends to forget this sort of thing, that there is little you should be concerned about. I think my girlfriend is the most physically attractive person out there and I care about her deeply, I just don't think of saying these things all the time, not because she is not important to me, but because those things are not important to me.
Physicality and the reception of attention based on it should not be your focus in your relationship as I know with mine it is not, even though I know I am blessed to have what I have, perfection.3