any pursuing me?
It makes me feel bad and it hurts my feelings. I am also told the right one will come along in no time... no time. It's never that time, at least that's what I feel.
It makes me feel like there's something wrong with me, like I'm broken, or ugly, too weird, just plain no. But I am told that I am funny, sweet, unique, intelligent, and beautiful; of course I know the adults, my aunts, and my friends are being nice-- If that's true than why does no boy see it?
I see girls who are half as much as me being pursued, being swayed and wooed, being told that they are loved and that they are special when all I see is their nasty attitudes (they give me dirty looks and do not apologize for their mishaps), boring personalities, self absorbed, heart breakers and even snobs,-- they all look the same to me. And no I'm not talking about all the non single girls just some few that I see.
Any ways, if those types of girls can get guys than why can't I?
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Hi there, I hear you. Its tough but the one thing that you didn't consider is...confidence ! I once had a roommate in college who I hung out with. I personally knew nad was told I was prettier than her however she consistenly had a steady stream of dates. So we went out together one night I knew for sure that as soon as we walked in all eyes would be on me and I would steel the night lol however within 30mins she met most the people there, guys were sending her their numbers, two guys actually waited in line to use the same pen to write their numbers down lol and that's when it all clicked for me. Its not about how you look all the time, its about what you think about how you look lol and what you have to offer and if you feel that you are special. Would women craze over Lui bags if they were $5 at the local store...no. They knew what the quality and design was worth and valued it as such now other women value it because they valued it first. So you can't expect someone to think you're special if you don't. What is it that you like about you? What qualities would he fall inlove with? What about you is different than everyone else? If nothing else think of this, there are gorgeous celebrities everyday that are cheated on hale berry, eva langoria, etc. If beauty was all that mattered that wouldn't be the case. Wish you the best3