Ok... My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now but he has no job, does not study and most times prefers to play vid games than talk with me. He has tried to get a job before but it seems impossible. Later on I met this guy that does pay attention to me, has a job, goes to college and even wanted to go out with me as friends because I told him about my boyfriend. My boyfriend found out about it and told me to not talk to him anymore because I liked him as a friend and I guess he was scared of loosing me all though I was not gonna leave him. Its been weeks almost more than a month since I have talked with that guy and I kinda wish we were still friends, my boyfriend does not want me to talk with him and asks me why do I insist on making friends with him. What do I do? Oh, I'm 19, my boyfriend is 23 and the other guy is also 19, I don't know if that helps.
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Impossible to get a job? lol that is pure bull sh*t.
I knew a former illegal immigrant that was my roommate. I'm not a mr. nice guy but the reason why I didn't tell the authorities was because we both grew up in two different countries with poverty. So I knew the pain she felt. Now this woman did not have a hard time finding a job. She was a chef, she earned 20 an hour. SHE CROSSED THE BORDER TWICE (because she had to be there for her mother's moment of death). She is now married to an American which means she is safe.
SO my opinion is, move on. A long time ago, the marriage requirements was the ability to provide for your wife. So ask yourself, why waste your time trying to be with someone who can't provide your needs?0