What you do, just for starters, is remember that your boyfriend is with you for a reason, and remind yourself of this as best and often as possible. But even beyond that, there are things you need to consider.
Regarding beauty, the first thing is that, just because you think they are more beautiful than you, doesn't mean they are. Secondly beauty is not one standard set of traits or ideals, so it's very likely that you are incredibly beautiful yourself. Even then that's not what matters. Sure he may be with you for your looks, however, if they're really more beautiful than you, and even he thinks so, it doesn't mean you're ugly. What it DOES mean is that your looks are not his primary reason for dating you. Which as far as I'm concerned, is a very good thing.
Look, just continue to be the wonderful girl he fell for in the first place. Treat him well. Just because a couple of them are models doesn't mean they're better than you. If all this really seems to be too much for you and what I've said doesn't help, why don't you talk to him about this? Maybe talk to him and ask him why he's with you, what he likes about you, things like that. You probably want to avoid asking about what you have over them unless you're feeling particularly brave, but it might help.
Finally, after you talk to him about all that, you might want to avoid asking about his ExGFs. Also avoid asking questions for which you may never want to know the answer. It might just make you more insecure, considering this whole thing already made you feel so ugly. But for now, try not to assume the worst. Try not to assume you're ugly, or that you're not good enough for him. He's with you here and now. That should tell you something. You are good enough.
I hope this helps a little.
I am not sure why he is showing you these pics to start with and you might ask yourself why they are ex's.
Moving on: 1) The pics don't mean that you are not beautiful. 2) Beauty can mean much more than physical looks -- in fact, I'll take very cute with a great personality over a drop-dead-gorgeous bitch any day. 3) Make sure you are good to each other and not much else including looks will matter. When you are both happy to just see, talk and be with each other, you can't ask for much more.
Umm... What reason could he possibly have for doing such a ridiculously stupid thing? Don't even let it phase you. They are his EX gfs for a reason. You are there here and now. You don't need to do anything. My ex showed my pics to girls that he cheated on me with like a f***in retard lol Seriously.. what was his reason? That is completely pointless. Why does he still have pictures of them? Maybe you need to re-evaluate your relationship.. sounds like he's holding on to old sh*t.
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