Does a girl do that to "let the guy down easy?" We've been texting each other every day basically but only seeing each other once every few weeks . . . I'm asking now because she has flaked out twice now, always on things I initiate (when she initiates I always show up like a good doggie *cringe*). It still hasn't reached our usual 3 week interval though lol, maybe I was just jumping the gun? Anyways, do women bother texting just to make themselves feel less like a**holes? If so, as I man, and I think I speak for all other men, JUST DON'T AGREE TO MEET UP IN THE FIRST PLACE AND JUST SAY NO . . .NO AGAIN . . . THEN BY 3RD TIME WE'LL GET THE MESSAGE . . . THAT IS THE EASIEST WAY FOR BOTH PARTIES NO? Lol OK there's my rant to the female world.
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I'm that she is doing this to you. Bad apple, she is. I think most women, in general, do not do this. I have read & been told that when men text a woman, it doesn't mean anything. It's out of boredom. But I can tell you for myself & from my friends & coworkers (we actually recently d/c'd this, lol) we don't text with men unless we are interested, esp. at night. We just won't waste our time doing that.
This girl, on the other hand...does not sound like a good gal for you.0