so I've been dating this guy for about 2 months and I was helping him move. I came across a paper on the floor that was a psych evaluation from the local college. it said that he was suffering from adhd and bipolar. some of the symptoms he was having were paranoia, social anxiety, aggressive outbursts. I know I shouldn't be bothered by it but I am. I feel terrible for it because he's amazing and sweet... I want to talk to him about it to make sure he's okay but I don't want to piss him off or make him uncomfortable. He told me that he had adhd but left out the bipolar part. I guess I just want him to know that I am concerned but more so that he's okay..my uncle is bipolar and I've had some scary moments with him to were he threatened to kill me etc. so I guess I'm just being scarey...hes taking meds and I googled the one he's taking. a side affect is shaking in sleep. he shakes really bad in his sleep to were onetime I thought he was having a seizure. I told him that he shakes in his sleep and he got kind of quiet. I dunno...how should I approach this...
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It's okay to feel bothered by it, especially since you have seen it firsthand in a terrible way. Learning that someone has the possibility of aggressive outbursts would worry anyone.
Seems this guy didn't want you to know most likely because of the chance it could scare you a bit. If he's been great with you up to this point, I wouldn't think it's necessary to bring it up, at least for now.
Here's a WebMD article regarding bipolar relationships, a good read for you: link0