from my past last time we hung out was over a year ago and we had a fight over my feelings for him and the lack of feelings he had for me... well iv changed ( iv lost weight and really toned up) and now I think if he gave me another chance he would be attracted to me so how do I go a/b asking him to hang out?
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Don't pigeon hole yourself into thinking men are all extremely shallow.
While it is a plus that you've lost weight, that alone probably isn't going to change his mind. He probably had multiple reasons for not liking you. Sometimes things just don't click, there is no chemistry, and the personalities don't mesh. Looks are just one piece of the pie.0