This girl and I have known each other a long time and have talked almost everyday since we first met, 5 years ago, through IM, texting, phone calls, and skyping. Mostly texting though. For the first time in a year we saw each other and she kinda distanced herself from me, anytime I would try to talk to her I always felt like the last thing she wanted to do was talk to me. Even though she confessed that she really liked me still and was hoping for a day when we could truly date a few days before we saw each other. At the end of the church camp/retreat she approached me and said she had a strange week. When I asked how she said that the few days before the camp when we weren't talking she didn't know what to do other than talk to me. So she said that she felt like it would be best if we took a break from talking so much cause she wanted to 'find' herself. When we finally said bye though, her and I had a long hug compared to the other goodbyes. So far I have done like she wanted, which is surprising cause I am really clingy, it has been 4 days now since the camp and no contact with her. How long should I wait? What could be going on with her? Is it hopeless now? I am confused.
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I agree with the other comments. Wait a little longer and just leave her a nice message letting her know that if she ever wants to talk again in the future, you will be there. And then leave it at that. Think of it as possible closure.
If she resumes her friendship with you again, then great. If not, then that's OK. Move forward. At least you know that whatever you guys had ended because she chose to end it and not because of a failure to do something on your part.