guy I am seeing..most days he texts and or calls me. he has a busy job and one day I didn't hear from him so the next day he was upset at me telling me that he was busy but he was expecting me to send him a text and was disappointed that I didn't.
today I didn't hear from him so finally I texted him in the evening and he goes "so you finally decide to text me"
most days he is the one making contact, more often than I initiate it.
does this mean he gets upset to not hear from me, that he does what girls do (look at the phone hoping to hear from the person they like)? because I assume if he doesn't text me he doesn't want to talk but then he told me I am wrong about that. I would just hate to look clingy though.
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Yes, guys actually like to hear from girls.
I don't it's good to literally be waiting for their text, but it's always nice to see a girl's name pop up on your phone's screen, can make the whole day much better, especially if the guy's the one usually initiating.
As for the clingy thing, I think it depends on the two people. Everyone has a certain level of "clingy", because it's only normal to want the person you like. It's just a matter of figuring out the person and what they prefer.
So the guy you're seeing, I don't think he would see you as clingy for texting him at all. He just wants to hear from you!0