I like direct as long as you're sincerely interested in me and not just in any girl you meet. If I think you could just as easily have asked the girl behind me out if you'd spoken to her first, I'll say no. If I think you're genuinely interested- then I appreciate the directness because I'm not one for games and confusing half-signals you have to interpret. Say what you mean, act the way you feel, and be sincere- it just makes life so much simpler.
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Uhh little bit of both? Not sure how else to describe it. I want to know if the guy likes me, don't like playing games, but he can let me know without directly saying "HEY I FIND YOU REALLY ATTRACTIVE LETS GO OUT" I like knowing he's interested, but then not having him ask me out immediately.. if that makes any sense.
Either way I don't mind if it's a guy I'm attracted to. it depends on his personality. some guys who are really good at conversation, I like the indirect way because I like talking to him. other guys, the direct way is probably better for them. either way I know your interested
So while the answers seem to be pretty clear, let me add a swirve ball. there is a difference between what a girl prefers and what will make a girl attracted to you the most. I would prefer a girl to be on her knees begging for me but that would actually make me less attracted to her. so be aware of the difference
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Depends if you look good or not. If you're a nicely dressed, nicely behaved guy, indirect is usually better. :)
Definitely direct. If a guy likes me I want him to be a man and tell me, not leave me guessing. We need more bold men in this world!
Direct. Guys are to hard to "read". You never know if they really care or if they really like you or if they are just being "nice".
Direct in a subtle way.
This is a hard one... direct duh XD
I like Direct.
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Direct, definitely!
Definitely direct. Haha confidence is key.
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