There's this guy I've been talking to for about 2 months and last night I told him that I'd come over at his house and he was like : "If you want me to come over to your house I'll be there ;) But my house, no way" And I was like wuuut ? Why is he so firm about me not coming over, I find it kind of suspicious, so yeah, give me your opinion on why wouldn't he want me to come over there, it's really weird...
Oh and FYI : We're both 17, and both live at our parents, so it's not like he's hiding his wife, or he has another girl living there, or like he doesn't want me to know that he still lives at mommy and daddy, none of that. It's just weird to me, like he's hiding something. BUT WHAT ? Lol
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Have you just flat out asked him?
It might be just simple embarrassment:
he and his folks are perhaps such
terrible housekeepers that the entire place
looks like a bomb went off in it. OR, just his
room might look like a dumpster.
Might be also that his parent or parents try too
hard to be welcoming or cool and end up
coming across as nosy, hovering, or smothering.
Did he have a previous girlfriend that maybe the
mom and/or dad REALLY liked and might therefore
make you feel less welcome by compariso?
No substitute for just asking him in my opinion.0