I have approached a lot of different girls in quite a few different situations and have been successful and not successful but something I have not had happen to me is have girls actually approach me with interest.
first off ladies do you even do this? I'm a pretty good looking guy but there are more attractive guys out there than me at least physically lol.
but still I have never had this happen to me and I am just curious is there a certain type of guy that ladies like to approach? is it about looks? or does this just not happen often?
and yes I have had random ladies say hello to me before but there never seemed to be anything about it that was attraction related so either I was not able to tell if it was or I just have not had it happen.
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I honestly don't like it when I have to do all the dirty work because then I'd question the guy's masculinity (sorry!) I like guys who are manly and confident (but NOT cocky) so I'd rather the guy pursue me.
But if you really want a girl to approach you, you have to become the girl YOU'd want to approach. Would you approach a girl who isn't smiling or looking at you? No, right? Also, it's way more difficult for a girl to approach a guy, so you should make yourself look as approachable as you can-- eye contact, smile, nod at her direction, just anything that shows that you're interested in her just as much as she is in you0