I took a girl out who I met online after we had been talking for about 2 weeks. All of our conversations have been going really well and I felt like she was into me too. Anyway, we went to dinner and to see a movie. She openly told me before we went out that she is shy and nervous when she meets someone. I could tell right away that she was nervous by how she acted when we first met. I drove and we had a nice conversation through dinner with a decent amount of eye contact. I would randomly touch her shoulder or arm throughout the night and she never had a negative reaction to it but she never initiated anything either...is that bad or just nerves on her part? She made no contact with me during the movie either. I also didn't try anymore as I was unsure if she was uncomfortable with it. I also noticed throughout the night that she was either playing with her hair or the necklace she had on...I've heard that is a sign of interest but I've also heard that it could just be nerves...What does it really mean? Once I took her home I got out of the car with her and she said "Thank you for everything and for driving I really appreciate it." She then said here let me give you a hug and opened her arms and we hugged and I then said text me to which she replied OK, sounds good. I really like this girl but I am unsure how to evaluate how the date went and how she is feeling? Any advice is greatly appreciated.
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sounds good! she probably didn't initiate anything because as she said, she was shy. Also, girls never like to make any moves on a guy as if they decline its awkward, not too mention embarassing! So I think that's the only flaw I think you should have made little contact with her too show your protective but not enough too say I'm using you for sex. And about the necklace/hair thing, ALL girls play with their hair or something loose attatched too them (me personally its my nails) but that's because were either lost for what to say or we just want something to do with our hands when in conversation. This makes it easier for us too talk with confidence because were not just staring at you we can look down at our hands to avoid eye contact if we want too. The fact you made eye contact shows positive signs because girls hate eye contact unless they mean it, so well done for achieving that. Also the fact she was polite to say thanks was good, and the hug just shows that she's interested but would prefer too take things slow cause after all it was the first time you met, you can't off been expecting too much ;) hope it helps! :) xx0