Guys: Would you be suspicious of dating a girl who is at least 21 or older & never had a boyfriend?
If so why?
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It wouldn't make any difference to me. I might be a little concerned if she was in her LATE 20s, but at 21, you're still in "late bloomer" territory and not all that uncommon.
It's not that guys prefer experienced girls (though some do), it's that they are concerned both that the girl may have a bunch of baggage from her past, and/or that she might have very conservative or even prudish values and won't want the same things in a relationship that he does.
And, there definitely are SOME guys who will take advantage of an inexperienced girl, so you need to be careful. Mainly, you need to take things slow, and check in with your more experienced friends to get their opinions too, because when you have feelings for a guy, you tend to overlook a guy's flaws, even really bad ones, until it's too late.0