Do you feel at times you put more into the relationship than your boyfriend or girlfriend?
What do you do about it...
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For the most part, no, because I'm very picky about who I make a long-term girlfriend. Any girl that passes my tests in the start of the relationship is generally going to be the type that will make me happy in the long term. The key is to filter out people who aren't going to be good for you early on instead of "investing" (what a horrible term) in bad people.
Now, you can have something start out good and go bad. That's when you need to talk to your partner about what behavior is annoying you. If they take your advice seriously, cut them some slack. Ask them what you can do to make them happier. If after a few weeks or a month they aren't on track, it is time to break up. Better to be alone and chasing a new girl than stuck in a relationship with a bad one is my personal philosophy.1