ha girls do you like when a guy kisses you on the first date assuming its going good and you are giving him signals whatever those signals may be?
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I am okay with the idea that a guy may go in for a kiss, but I will not accept it.
I realize with all the glamorization of FWB and casual sex, this may sound ridiculous, but think about it: Any first date I have been on has been with someone that I just met, on this date. Kissing is intimate. I am letting someone do something that I would not find acceptable from a random stranger. It has a level of meaning. I don't think it belongs on a first date.
However, like I said, I get that a guy doesn't need to be an animal to attempt a kiss on the first date and it doesn't speak poorly of him. I think it would send a small message that I don't want to send if I accepted it, so I don't. Oh, and it doesn't have to be awkward or send a message that I don't like a guy not to accept that first kiss. I always make a guy I like aware that I am enjoying his company and I will hug, but if they try for a kiss during the hug, they end up planting it on my cheek. That happened with my last first date, and we are married now...0