I began a 'sexual relationship' with a guy who kept pushing to date. After several times seeing each other, I gave in and began to 'date' him. We were in a lenient type of military training and I knew it couldn't last because we would live so far apart acter. We never pushed each other because of this but promised to keep in touch after. After spending some awesome nights together before I left, we said our goodbyes. He texted me on my way home saying he missed me already...we texted again the next day...3 days later I texted him and no answer...nothing...he liked some stuff on my Facebook but that's all I heard from him. Now its been a few more days and I'm confused and not sure what is going on. Was I played? He texted back, all short texts...i really think he is playing...am I overreacting? Why would a guy try so hard to get a girl in a relationship that wouldn't work out and then disappear after its over for a few days?
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I think 2 things are potentially going on here.
1. Like most men he doesn't really like texting. As time has gone on he's realized how much work it is to keep in contact via text since you don't see each other in person, and like most men he isn't a fan of this. Most guys hate texting and will avoid it like the plague even with a girl they love. This explains why he isn't fully avoiding you by liking things on Facebook.
2. Reality may have set in and by being away his emotions subsided, therefor making him think more clearly. He may have realized that this relationship could never work (sort of like you first though). He's limiting communication so that he can start distancing himself from you. Not entirely, but just enough.1