I finally told my best friend I was inlove with him and he was shocked. He then later said he isn't saying it will never happen but it just won't happen now.(he meant loving me too) I'm confused by that. I've been waiting for months. He has legit turned me into the girl that waits. And I hate it. I want to know what he meant by it so I can decide if I should either just give up and keep trying to move on or if I should wait longer.
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If a girl told me she loved me, I'd be backing off a little too.
If he has a girlfriend... You need to respect that and back off. Karma sucks... don't break him up. If not, continue reading...
If I was you, here is how I would handle the situation. Back off of him for a week atleast. NO texts, NO calls, NO contact. If you keep chasing him, he won't see any value in you. You told him how you feel, best thing to do now is to hang out with your friends and don't give him too much of your time. HE WILL text you back I GUARANTEE IT!
When he finally does, just ease into the dynamics between you two. Keep it short but nice and show him INDIRECTLY that if he doesn't like you, you can find someone else who does :)0
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