I have been on and off with the same guy for about a year now. My three closest friends seemed really cool with him at first, but it turns out they were never cool at all with him (they just came out with this because they didn't want to hurt my feelings). This fact came out recently when we got back together again (the final reason we chose to stay apart was that the school I was taking some classes at was a completely different city). My friends, once I told them, were so mad about it (in simplest terms). They then went on to tell me that they disliked him because he was "manipulative", "obsessed" and completely "driven by his ego". I never really noticed anything like that about him but I didn't know my friends hated him so much. They didn't ask me to choose between him and them, but simply stated that "We don't wanna hang out with him". They didn't ask me to choose but I feel like they might as well have. I know the guy and I are most likely not going to last but I feel like I really disappointed my friends by going back to him. I know my friends really do care, and it takes a lot for them to hate someone so I know there must be something that I am missing. So, should I choose to end the relationship now? Or should I wait it out to see if my friends are right? I just feel so torn between the two.
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It's off an on, do you really think it's going to work out? If your friends are telling you he is manipulative and 'so far up his own ass' (driven by ego) he probably is a loser. I found it interesting how everyone seperated after high school. If you still hangout with them they must be good friends, you break up with your boyfriend off and on and those never work out. If you broke up you broke up for a reason, it's going to keep happening. Your friends are pretty cool about it, they said hey we don't wan't to hang out with him we don't like him we aren't saying break up with him but we don't want to hang out.0