my ex brought out the absolute worse in me. I have never been so unhappy, tears, fighting, confrontation,etc in my life. Everything I did was to "piss him off" or "treat him like a dog" as he claims. yes I have my issues as well like having a temper but after dating him I literally don't want to deal with another man. I know not all men are like him but I thought he was a great guy in the beginning and now I completely regret meeting, talking, giving my virginity and being with him. how can I get out of this rut of not dating anymore because of him?
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You ultimately have to accept that not all men are like him, and that he was just a bad apple for you.
PLEASE don't be another man-hating woman in the dating game. All that will do is give you a bad aura, which will repel every genuine guy worth keeping away from you.
Therefore, if you let your most recent ex CONTROL your psyche like that...you will be forever alone.
Think about it...do you really want to allow one man that you dislike to emotionally and psychologically CONTROL you like that?
Brush him off, absorb the lessons from that relationship, and go back in the dating game with a POSITIVE vibe, or else you will simply attract worse and worse men and be a broken fragmented emotional and psychological mess.0