every time I'm at my boyfriends house, he tells me to tidy his room for him or wash up the dishes or make him something to eat.
when he's in my house, I do everything for him - but when I'm at his, I don't think the same rules should apply.
Whats your opinion...
Most Helpful Girl
You're his girlfriend, not his maid or mother. You're at his house and therefore, he's the host. He should be the one cooking for you and cleaning his own mess. You should both help out at each others' houses if you do stuff for each other. For example, if he cooks for you, it's only fair you help with the dishes. But if his house is messy because of his own doing, then it's his responsibility to clean it. For example, if he has dirty clothes strewn across his room, that's his responsibility to clean up.1