K so I've been dating this guy for about 7 months and I've actually known him for about 9. We know each other really well and were always spending time together.. Today I got a text from him saying that next time we were at his house alone and his parents weren't there he wanted to have sex.. I didn't know what to tell him because were both only 14 years old. He told me he was totally ready for it, but I don't know what to say because I don't want to let him down and think I'm not ready for it... What do I do?
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Follow you're instinct. If you think you're not ready you're not. Don't get caught up with trying to grow up and having your "first love" . And who knows if this boy will keep this to himself if you really decide to do it. I know this is superficial but what will people think? tell him that it's just not a good idea, and that other stuff besides sex might be okay. And think about pregnancy because no form of birth control is a 100% full proof. Anything can happen.0