Well basically the way my luck goes with girls is, I flirt with them and they end up liking me (or so they say) only for them to end up leading me on and breaking my heart, or the other famous one is, I put a lot of time and effort into a certain girl only for her to say I'd rather be friends. And I've only had one girlfriend who broke up with me because she got tired of me caring about her so much. I just want to know what's wrong with me.
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I’ve been in this situation - many times. It's most likely nothing wrong with you. We're young, and many people just aren't at a point in their lives where they're ready for a committed, caring relationship – but there are people out there who ARE looking for that. It’s just a matter of sifting through all the pebbles and sand to find the gold nugget at the bottom=). While I too have been treated like that by guys, I've also been at the other end of it.. On the rare occasion that I DO in fact meet a nice one like you, I tend to close myself off before things get too serious or get scared off in fear of getting hurt… but that’s my own baggage talking. Just keep yourself busy, focus on yourself and your friends. You are naturally caring, so don’t try to change that for anyone ever! Keep being the kind and caring guy that you are and someone will eventually realize it! Good intentioned men are scarce from my experience!