So I take a 4 week summer course and meet this really nice girl who I hang out with a lot and she really seems to like me. I keep trying to ask her out and she says she wants to but she says to wait and I get impatient but she says she really does want to and she isn't just blowing me off. Today some other guy in class starts hitting on her and trying to get her to hang out with him after our class ended. I had to leave because I got really annoyed. Is she just lying to me?
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Did she accept this guy's request to hang out? If she did, she was not being truthful with you but that is not uncommon. A lot of people are flat out uncomfortable saying no.
Beyond that, if you have asked her out multiple times and she says she wants to go out but never accepts, it is up to you to consider at what point that seems rude or thoughtless behavior. Personally if I really like a guy I would be afraid to say no too many times and have him lose interest. She doesn't seem that worried about you losing interest. Not a good sign.0