How soon, do you expect shell be ready. if she tells you she wants to be with you?
Do you assume, well, if she knows she wants to be with you, that must mean, she's ready for sex. or do you not assume this?
I like a guy a lot. I want to try being with him, I've never really made an effort to be with anyone. And with him, I sort of prevented us from being together last time we tried. So I want to try again.
(I was just too busy with work, & he got hurt. insulted/ offended/ frustrated.. it fell apart. )
anyways I'm concerned its pointless to say anything, because if I say I want to be with u, hell assume I'm ready for sex.ive never had sex, I've never been with anyone, except him. so I wouldn't be ready right away.
What I i mean, is it irrational, to say yo want to be with someone, if you already know you are not ready for sex?
Would you take it as., I want to be with you, yet I don't.
or would you see it as I want to be with u, just not ready for sex.
would you wonder why someone would think they want to be with , if they don't want sex-yet?
Im not confused as to how I feel about hm, & I'm not looking for a replacement. I just want to know about this situation. not alternative people.
Any thoughts, helpful. thanks.
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Where's the romance in this world.
All these desperate dude watching internet p*rn and Facebook'ing all day think that sex is on a checklist.
If I were a chick, I would expect a guy to seduce me to get my panties off.
If he expects it, he's a douche bag. A real man would make you want it.1
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