My boyfriend and I had a very attached relationship for 3 months all of the sudden some family issues came to his life and he says he likes to be alone when he has problems and that he needs some space. I asked him if that includes not talking everyday and he said that we can talk but usually I send him 4-5 text a day and he only responds when I text and most of the time with short answers. One side of me tells me he wants to end up the relationship but its just waiting for me to do it the other side tell me just be patient till he settles down his life back. what should I do should I keep texting him at least so he knows I'm still by his side or should I stop reaching him all the time?
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If I said I need space, I'd mean it. id break up if that's what why intentions were. I would not lie.
maybe he's being honest & wants to be alone for a bit. HES not breaking up with u. if you don't like the arrangement you can break up with him, but that's your decision. that's not him waiting fir you to do it/.
if I was u, id just go do other things, give him some time,. id ask him about how much time he needs just so I can plan my schedule.
i would not text. just leave him alone. free myself up to do other things. give him space.
ge has to learn to ask for stuff he wants. if he says he wants space, but really wants attention, that's his problem, not yours.
take ihm at his word & leave him alone.
if you don't think that's appropriate you can break up with him
some people see taking a break as breaking up & think its inappropriate& disrespectful. but as for him waiting for you to break up. I don't think so. anyways, if that's your only reason, why do his dirty work. let him do it.
you can decide how long is too lon, for you to wait give him that number, if he needs more time than tht.. then its up to you to say or go.0