I feel like settling, lowering my standards, but I'm having a very hard time doing so, I'm just attracted to girls either out of my league, or I have to be physically attracted to a girl in order for me to see her as girlfriend material, dating/relationship material, obviously looks are not the only-thing that matters, there has to be a physical attraction and both a personality attraction too, but I'm not overweight, I'm not that fat, I weigh like 190lbs and I'm 5'7-5'8, around there, I consider myself average looking, but I just wish I can be attracted to girls in my own range of attractiveness, why can't I lower my standards? it's like my mind is telling me not to.
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Just keep trying. Its like fishing. you don't fish for the biggest you just throw a net in and drag them all up. and either you like them and they turn out alright, or they don't. In which case, 7billion people on the planet, you'll find someone. Just have to keep trying,and trying. don't take it personal, keep moving. Talking, asking them questions ,not real long, but enough to get a name and #. try to get 3-5 numbers a day see if it is really theirs, call them before you leave. Put them on the spot. then walk away if it isn't their number. it's just knowing who you're talking to, if they play a stupid game, or if they are legit people who don't play mind games like "hard to get". If you need confidence help, work out, it helps release endorphines you'll feel great, and eventually-if you stick to a plan- you'll be a bit more toned as well. In the end you'll pick a girl up without to many issues as long as you can get better with conversing and try wearing something nice :) not that you don't now but since I can't see your pic or know your style of dress, I'm just going off basics. Some guys don't have the basics. Some people I know don't brush their teeth every day at least 1-2 times, some of them do it once a week!0
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