I know a man who is in his mid 30's and he is a virgin, and he seems to only want to date young girls (early 20's) and he was even after a teenager once. He said it's because he would rather be with a girl who is inexperienced like him and most women his age have been married or have kids. Do you think that is a bit weird? and he is probably dreaming a little? in my opinion I think he will be a virgin forever if he wants a girl like that... it probably won't happen. I mean why would a pretty young lady (he only like the pretty ones) want to date someone 15 or so years older then her, when she can meet a cute young man her age with more things in common?
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I'm 42, and my Girlfriend is 22. She had 2 boyfriends before me, both long-term, and both near her age, and both of them treated her like crap. Now, I'm not suggesting that all guys in their early 20s treat women badly, because I know that's not true, but many of them do. Even more simply don't know HOW to treat a girl right.
Her primary reason for being with me is that I treat her right. I not only talk to her, but I *listen* to her and ask for her opinions before I make a decision. I provide strength and leadership in the relationship, but I always consider her opinion and point-of-view when I do. She feels like she is respected, paid attention to, and cherished, none of which she felt with other guys.
While I always date younger girls, I usually look for late 20s-early 30s. We just happened to meet through some friends and we clicked. But, she's completely happy, so I don't see any issue.2