So...anytime my best friend & I go anywhere guys flock around. Her& follow her around all night long but I don't even get a second glance. She's always the girl getting super drunk when we go to parties. I usually can't mingle as much as I'd like because I'm too busy following her around making sure nothing bad happens, which I shouldn't but I can't help it. I do still manage to have a good time though. Could it be that she comes off as more fun than me although I am super friendly & down to earth? She's also extremely skinny & blond whereas I. Would be considered average build, not super skinny like her but not chubby & brunette. So could it be looks? It doesn't usually bother me but lately it has, for some reason. it not just when were together neither guys don't approach me anywhere but she gets approached almost everywhere she goes.
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It has allot to do with her looks but from what it sounds like she also puts off "I am a slut" vibe which attracts men, normally the ones just looking for a good time. You may actually be attractive but when you are around her you will fade into the background because you are the responsible one, the side kick who lives in the shadows. Men may not approach you when you are alone because you don't seem as loose as your friend does, that is not a bad thing, it means you will attract quality men versus a**holes. I grew up much the same way, my best friend is what all women find attractive, good looks, tall, good build and was very funny to boot. I was good looking but I am smaller and was always the responsible one making sure he didn't get into trouble. I never understood why women couldn't see that I was the better choice but the reality is, people are shallow and don't care about who you are, just what you look like and how you would be in the sack. I hope this helps, just know that your choices in men will always be better than hers because men will never truly respect her but they will you.1