and we are going on a 5th kind of feels like we are just friends now except we have held hands.
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He's probably just shy when it comes to that stuff.
I'm surprised though. Mostly, if I wouldn't kiss a girl when we're in the early stages of dating, its because I'm not entirely sure she's in to me. But since you guys held hands, that's a pretty clear sign that you want more than just a friendship.
I suppose the best way is ask him what he sees in your guys' future. Just a friendship? Or a possible relationship?
I would say wait and see the next date. If he doesn't then maybe its a sign to just accept a friendship, but then again, it would suck to lose a shot at a great guy just because he is a little gun shy. I guess just go with the flow and see what happens.0